HIS LOVE FOR GOD MATTERS

God is the creator of all things; man, animals, plants, non-living things and everything you can ever think of.

            According to John 3:16, God loves us so much that He gave us His only begotten son, His son Jesus Christ came to the world to die for our sins. Greater love has no man than this that a man gives up his life for his friends. (John15:13)

            God’s love is unconditional, His love doesn’t demand for sex nor material things, His love doesn’t fade, His love is everlasting. Falling in love with Him is the best thing that can ever happen to a man. Loving Him is so sweet.

            Ladies, it’s sad that we have diverted all the love we are meant to have for Him on our fellow human most especially the opposite sex. This is not supposed to happen. God should have a special place in your heart. No man should take God’s place in your heart. Always ensure that GOD COMES FIRST in your life, with this you will be guided to make the right decisions because HE lives in you.

            Ladies are emotional, we are easily moved by some certain things, though most times we don’t show them but inside of us we know what we are thinking of. We fall in and out of love easily. Most times we fall in love with a person’s appearance and fame instead of the real person. Many times it’s difficult for us to understand what we truly feel for the opposite sex.

           Sometimes ago, I spoke to my mentor about someone I have affection for. I explained to him that I really like the guy and he said to me “Loving a guy is not a criteria that he is the chosen one for you”. Many times, we choose our partner based on what we feel and see, some of us even have the picture of our ideal man, but when our so called ideal man comes and we start a relationship with him, we end up breaking up because we just can’t cope with one another. My mentor always says every perfect guy is not meant for the best girl, God always have a better choice for us. Though his choice sometimes doesn’t fit into our own picture but his choice is always the best.

            Does that guy really love God? If a guy doesn’t love God and the things of God, then he cannot love you, if he doesn’t have the fear of God then he can’t love and respect you. So I thought within myself, how do you measure a person’s love? How do you know if a person truly loves God? Some cunning guys can pretend and show you that they love God but deep in their heart, they know they are not real.

            Only a man that loves God will know how to treat a woman right. Only a man who loves God can have the capacity to love a woman dearly. Only a man that loves God with his life can be guided by God to love a woman. Only a man that loves God will be able to tolerate a woman because women can be difficult at times. A man who doesn’t love God cannot care, appreciate or love what God has created i.e. woman. Let’s look out for that man who is after God’s heart. Prayer is also an important key to consider. I pray God will open our eyes to see that man who really loves Him. His love for God matters.