VIRGINITY

A virgin is a person who has never had sex, a person with no sexual experience. Sex is a physical activity between two people in which they touch each other’s sexual organs which may include sexual intercourse.

            Virginity is a state of being a virgin. Back in the ancient times, Ladies/girls are disciplined in a strict way. The African culture demands that a lady remains a virgin until she gets married. A lady who cannot hold herself was advised to get married. Well that was then.

            Civilization has taken place now and things have changed. Virginity is no longer in vogue. People now engage in sexual activities without any feeling of guilt or anyone correcting them.

            To the ladies, I really want to say that we should keep ourselves and remain a virgin until we get married. I believe there is time for everything. I understand that some ladies are not longer virgins due to some reasons. I know that some were raped or molested when they were young and they lost their virginity in the process. But I will like to say that this is not enough reason for you to now involve yourself in diverse forms of sexual immorality. It won’t help you instead it will destroy you.

            To some ladies who claim that they are virgins but engage in series of sexual activities with the opposite sex but do not allow penetration. The only thing that qualifies them as a virgin is their hymen which has not been broken. I ask a question what kind of virgin are you? FAKE ONE I GUESS

            The Bible says that our body is the temple of God. Only clean things are laid on the temple of God. No filthy things are allowed to be placed on it. Only pure things are laid on it. If your body is truly God’s temple, you won’t allow anyone to feast on it or experiment on it.

           Do not allow any past incidence about how you lose your virginity to affect you. Move on with life by keeping yourself. Do not give any man opportunity to defile you or use you. Do not sell your body in exchange for money thinking you don’t have anything to lose. There is no crime waiting. Wait for the right man. A right man won’t ask you for sex or touch your body if he truly loves you. Abstain from any form of sexual sins.

            Note that men out there want to marry decent women. They want a woman with a high moral standard to be their wife and the mother of their children. Never think that being a virgin is a disease. Sex is worth waiting for. Don’t allow any man to steal your pride away from you with cheap words. YOUR VIRGINITY IS YOUR PRIDE; YOUR BODY IS GOD’S TEMPLE…